https://blog.spacehey.com/user?id=2023163The most recent Blog Entries by the User "Grave" on SpaceHeyhttps://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=2116897https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=2116897I've been sort of busy, but I truly haven't done that much lately! I dove headfirst into working, and then got sucked in by video games. I'm actually quite behind work-wise, but today went better than I was expecting so! Hopefully I'll catch up before I freak out. I've been playing some action roguelikes and some gambling based roguelikes. I didn't grow up playing video games so I'm not very good ...Wed, 11 Mar 2026 01:27:20 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1992973https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1992973You ever throw a bit of a tantrum and let all your bottled up feelings out, all for it to fix itself the next day so now you just feel dramatic? That's kinda been my week haha, at least for the last few days. I was having some tech issues with my work stuff, and with me being the current sole-earner of my relationship to a great dude who happens to have health issues that require stupidly expensiv...Mon, 24 Nov 2025 03:45:16 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1990464https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1990464I've made it my personal mission to find and add all sorts of silly/funny/goofy shit to my directory. So far, I have 3 sites that to me, are really amusing. Ninjaweb's cursed meme page YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN THIS  (a long list of links to viral internet stuff) PointSat, 22 Nov 2025 00:24:38 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1986344https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1986344To make the context clear, my normal job is filming and posting/selling solo femdom porn videos (I will not be going into detail at all, so this won't be NSFW). So, the house being quiet when I film is kind of important, since I could very well get my account shut down if an unidentified voice appears. (All sites I work with require age verification for everyone, which is industry standard) And I ...Tue, 18 Nov 2025 00:29:18 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1982812https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1982812The web is a wide, beautiful place, but sometimes it can be hard to actually pick something to look at! So, I decided to go through the newsletters I'm currently receiving in my inbox, and everything from my RSS feed. My collection is not very big haha, but I'll be sure to make a secondary blog once I get some more feeds and newsletters in my system. These are  very lightly  organized, but I highl...Sat, 15 Nov 2025 00:31:30 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1979680https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1979680After way, way too long, I finally have my own website! If you want, you can look at it here: Digital Vulture . I honestly took way too long to bite the bullet on this, I had gotten way too deep into a rabbithole of webhosting and domains and yaddayadda that I just, couldn't start. So, while stoned, I decided to just pick one and make a website. I landed on Neocities because there is a lot of supp...Wed, 12 Nov 2025 03:50:22 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1972657https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1972657It's the first album I've bought on CD in many many years, and honestly so worth it. I've been very happy to listen to most Machine Girl songs, and this album is definitely still in the usual 'range', at least as of the album before. I really enjoy the sort of gritty retro feel, both in the album art and in the songs. My favorites were 'Come On Baby, Scrape My Date', 'Ignore The Vore', and 'Dread ...Thu, 06 Nov 2025 03:28:07 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1970349https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1970349Today marks the official last day of my seasonal retail halloween job, and even though I still have about a week to tear the store down, I wanted to talk a bit about all the things I love and hate about this job. To be clear, this is my 3rd year working here and my first as an assistant manager. (Ew, I know, I'm the 'man' now) I am super lucky to have gotten this job in the first place, even if it...Tue, 04 Nov 2025 05:02:28 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1934743https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1934743It's way too easy to slip back in to old habits huh. But, here I am, high as shit, listening to a video about hacking. Most of my time is spent at work or playing video games, mostly Stardew Valley or Postal Redux. I'm pretty proud of being an assistant manager at the halloween store, but I am super aware that that is kinda not a big deal. I mostly enjoy having more duties and more money hehehe. I...Fri, 03 Oct 2025 07:49:07 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1708527https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1708527What does it mean that I'm a woman? Not to say I claim that identity, but for all intents and purposes, that is the way the world acknowledges me and therefore how I live. Does it mean that I am feminine? No, but even if it did, even if I was an extremely feminine person, would that be as a consequence of being assigned 'woman'? How can you tell the difference between a socially accepted construct...Thu, 19 Jun 2025 07:57:16 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1542388https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1542388I have never enjoyed cooking, like, at all. My sister was the one who always helped and asked our mom questions. I was just happy to graze on snacks all day and bury my nose in a book. Funny thing about being an adult though... Some skills you missed out on are now necessary. I actually thought tortillas would be pretty difficult at first but I ended up choosing a couple videos to follow, which I ...Fri, 18 Apr 2025 09:35:40 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1536008https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1536008Oops. Well, I didn't intentionally ditch this side of the web! My hard drive failed so I lost everything I had on it :/ Upside is that I upgraded to a SSD! Bad news is my laptop will be too old for the programs I need by the end of the year. Pros and cons, pros and cons. I have a lot I want to talk about, so I'm sure I'll be posting a lot here soon, including getting active again on my fave forums...Tue, 15 Apr 2025 02:26:36 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1430730https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1430730It's strange how much pressure I unknowingly put on myself. I've written before about my feelings on the personal web, particularly about how freeing it felt to create for creativity's sake. Unfortunately, I'm still unlearning habits from the corp side of the web. I started putting pressure on myself to write something good, or helpful, or unique. I let my anxieties creep back in about talking to ...Tue, 18 Feb 2025 12:28:13 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1401742https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1401742There's this very pretty Nina Simone song playing on the radio, not that I would know the name. Jazz has always been more my boyfriend's thing, much like Ozzy Osbourne, owls, retro video games, technology, and beans. Yes, we eat enough beans that I feel it deserves mention. We have far too many blankets piled on the couch, but I'm certainly not willing to give any up. It's a good night. Earlier, w...Wed, 05 Feb 2025 04:32:47 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1398810https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1398810I was in community college for journalism for about a year and a half, during which I took as many art classes as humanly possible. I wasn't particularly *good*, but I always liked expressing myself creatively. Which is why, when my art teacher (professor?) gave us an assignment to do a family portrait, and immediately I had the perfect idea. You know that painting, the one with [the man holding t...Tue, 04 Feb 2025 03:07:18 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1389193https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1389193(I am an adult content creator; this started as a small rant to friends but grew by itself until I felt the need to put it here!) I want to reiterate that I really do enjoy my work. It's responsible for almost everything I have in life, why I'm not homeless or stuck in a relationship that isn't good for anyone. It's why I have food and water and a safe place to rest my head at night. But I was def...Fri, 31 Jan 2025 08:32:42 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1386953https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1386953My current adventures into the indie web have lead me to some interesting places, and to some interesting people. I even made a whole post about it! On social media, I often felt very small and insignificant. Why comment something when it will only be buried or ridiculed? Why like something that already has millions? Why create when there is already so much to consume? Here, I'm already finding it...Thu, 30 Jan 2025 09:25:00 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1378326https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1378326I love going through people's favorite links, and as someone who frequently gets obsessed with things and then drops them, I think a monthly-ish round up sounds like a great idea! I'd love to include some bloggers/profiles from here as well, I'll most likely wait a month or two to make sure I have a good amount to choose from (with their permission, of course.). Sites:Sun, 26 Jan 2025 08:23:24 +0000https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1375903https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=1375903I'm not sure why but I'm definitely getting a bigger interest in old school platforms, retro tech, digital minimalism, and decentralizing the web. For example, my profile here! But I'm going to be slowly turning my phone stupider (lol), moving to physical media when able, and staying as far away from profit-motivated sites. I do have to stay online to a large degree to my job (independent xxx work...Sat, 25 Jan 2025 05:54:38 +0000