<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Blog Entries by &quot;hellebore&quot; | SpaceHey</title><link>https://blog.spacehey.com/user?id=3784605</link><description>The most recent Blog Entries by the User &quot;hellebore&quot; on SpaceHey</description><item><title>GOD-mode empathy</title><link>https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=2034021</link><guid>https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=2034021</guid><description>i have a problem i’m hyper empathetic . and you might think &quot;oh but that&#039;s good, empathy is important because-&quot; NO YOU DON&#039;T UNDERSTAND ME LITERALLY I&#039;M TOO EMPATHETIC. I&#039;M SO EMPATHETIC THAT I MAKE PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE and my empathy is so big that it makes me give excessive apologies. and those apologies somehow force the other person to comfort ME for feeling bad for making THEM feel uncomforta...</description><pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2025 04:17:33 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>too late to introduce myself?</title><link>https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=2032506</link><guid>https://blog.spacehey.com/entry?id=2032506</guid><description>i don’t have the slightest idea how to start a blog. it’s honestly so tedious deciding what i want to share about myself. usually, i’m a very private person. it makes me ridiculously uncomfortable to talk about even the smallest personal things unless i’m in a conversation with two or three people max. BUT! then i remember i’m on SpaceHey, and people here are usually so kind that i want to believe...</description><pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2025 01:13:37 +0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>