<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>&quot;thinking about my ex (venting and in need of advice)&quot; | Forum Topic | SpaceHey</title><link>https://blog.spacehey.com</link><description>Forum Topic created by a4gel</description><item><title>Reply by &quot;luna&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=867527</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=867527</guid><description>Hi! Have you tried putting down in paper (or like, in your notes, doesn&#039;t have to be physical) all you feel for him? Maybe you just need to get these things of your system. I felt the same way when I cut off my ex definitively and (I admit I was drunk) but I did send them a text with some of the things I felt. However, sometimes you do have to make peace with the fact that you can&#039;t always have &#039;c...</description><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2026 07:27:30 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Maber&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=862284</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=862284</guid><description>I think you might have to accept the fact you might never forget him completely. Sounds like he was your first many things, so... Your feelings may be strong right now, but they WILL get smaller as you live life and make new experiences. Heck, I still think about my past relationships from years ago even though some of them sucked so bad. It&#039;ll get better though, give yourself some slack for sure ...</description><pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2026 07:47:38 +0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>