https://blog.spacehey.comForum Topic created by heathhttps://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=181513https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=181513I have as many of you, grown up in a heavily religious household, and because of this fact I was quite afraid to come out, I wanted to tell my dad first, because he's generally more open-minded than the rest of my family, and I am not joking when I say that I told him over Text. What happened next is quite hard to talk about... It surprised me more than anything when I heard what he had to say, I ...Sun, 06 Feb 2022 13:35:28 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=179984https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=179984I never got to come out bc my cousin snitched on me smhhThu, 03 Feb 2022 09:09:10 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=177889https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=177889Ive never had to "come out" to my friends and family. I just came out of the womb pansexual i guess and no one ever questioned me about my sexuality, i never felt like i had to say it, and im kinda awhore so i dont even tell my mom about the people im dating hahaha. but a week or so ago me and my siblings were just talking shit and somehow my older siblings were calling my little brother a bakla (...Mon, 31 Jan 2022 06:54:25 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=170772https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=170772I told my dad I was gay before ever telling him I was trans. I let him think I was a lesbian for a little while lol. Later, after I went away to school, I sent him an email that was made to look like an official email from my college. It basically ended with "hey dad, its actually me, and by the way i'm trans" he didn't speak to me for a week XDMon, 17 Jan 2022 22:22:27 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=166411https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=166411I always thought girls were pretty but I never bought that I could date anyone other than a boy. I married a man. It occurred to me that I was attracted to women after falling for one of my besties at the age of 35. Well, too late to date I guess. 😂Mon, 10 Jan 2022 05:25:43 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=144396https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=144396I think my favorite story was when I came out as bisexual to my mom. At that point, I had already come out before (as FtM before later realizing I'm not transgender, just a woman with no regard for bullsh*t gender roles). I mentioned that I'm bisexual in passing, and said "Surprise, haha...", to which she replied, "It's really not [a surprise]." Through all of my questioning and coming out, she's ...Fri, 17 Dec 2021 21:45:59 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=137616https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=137616this ones a little embarrasing so yeah i was 11 i was on omegle yep good old omegle and i was searching for ppl to talk to and saw a lets say not so well covered dude n pretended to be a girl just to see  and my dad caught me and now he knows im well i think gay im pansexual atm im still quenstioning IDKKK!!! but yeah theres an embarassing omegle coming out story for you guys!Fri, 10 Dec 2021 02:48:49 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=129685https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=129685My story isn’t as sweet as the others, so I’m sorry.  When I was 17 I came out as bisexual to my mom, and she dismissed me. She didn’t even care. It really hurt, cuz at least if she was angry then that would’ve meant she cared, even a little. Anyhow, I’m pansexual and agender now, and when I told her that (at 20) she threw the biggest fit in the world, saying that I’ll always be her daughter and I...Fri, 03 Dec 2021 00:54:48 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=121890https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=121890My first coming out story is that my mother looked through my phone when I was about 8 and saw that I had “bi af” in my musically bio! It was horrible at the time but it’s hilarious now. My second coming out I was 12, at the time I identified as a trans man. My mother looked through my room and found my cheap amazon binder that didn’t even work:| Then my third coming out was when I put “they/it” i...Sat, 27 Nov 2021 19:28:37 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=120878https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=120878Started out as a “rumor” around school; and then my cousin heard about it and jokingly brought it up to their mom (my aunt and moms best friend). Well from here my aunt said something to my mom. I was probably in 6th grade at the time so my mom came to me and asked me about the rumors and if they were true. I didn’t reply. She cried, avoided me for like 2 weeks, and then finally.. she started tryi...Sat, 27 Nov 2021 01:41:11 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=120431https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=120431In fourth grade I had officially come to terms with being LGBT, as well as my friend who was already out to her parents. She wanted me to go to a pride parade with her and I was scared to ask my mom but I did anyways. She asked me why I would wanna go and I told her just to show support to my friend lol.. she asked if I thought I was gay and I lied and said I never thought about it. She could tell...Fri, 26 Nov 2021 18:49:36 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=97619https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=97619I'm barely coming out as of recent. Still really shy about it. But hopefully with this group I can learn to be proud 🙈Wed, 17 Nov 2021 00:41:03 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=89234https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=89234I was sitting in bed with my mom and I said "You don't know anything about my taste" while talking about the things I liked, and she said "Are you a lesbian?" (which I'm not) and I was shoked because I wasn't talking about that, but I immedeatly started crying, and I hugged her,  SO EMBARRASING D;. I said no, and she said "Do you like boys?" -Yes "Do you like girls?" .... -Yes, and all of this hap...Mon, 15 Nov 2021 03:27:09 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=75332https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=75332I was about 15 or 16 , we had just moved to a new town and although I had always called myself bi I never really kissed , dated or anything with a girl .. anyway I met this stud girl in the new town and it was like I couldn’t keep my eyes off her 😩 I was so fascinated with her .. I wanted to get to know her so bad , I remember when she first approached me (we lived in the same apartment complex as...Fri, 12 Nov 2021 22:19:49 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=70466https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=70466I told my cousin that I was bi and she was very supportive of it and was there when I told my parents they thought I was joking. To this day they still joke about it randomly, sometimes it hurts my feelings because like I would like to have a strong relationship with them but they haven't accepted my sexuality.Fri, 12 Nov 2021 06:06:25 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=64670https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=64670I was in an Uraraka cosplay and making Tik Toks and at one point I decided to use fake blood and spread it all over my face. My mum caught me in the act of lip syncing to "The Red Means I Love You" and asked me what I was doing. Then she demanded to watch all my videos to make sure they were clean (they were not lmao) and I had to delete them all. She took my phone off me and saw my bio, which sta...Fri, 05 Nov 2021 00:44:03 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=52262https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=52262it was bad lol i was having a mental breakdown. my mom said they knew and my dad didnt say anything then i learned later in life my dad doesn't like LGBT people, but the best thing my dad didn't do is kick me out or i would be homeless lmao My dad is a good guy despite his homophobia I don't like talking about LGBT stuff with my family due to it. I just keep it all to myself. My niece came out as ...Sun, 19 Sep 2021 14:15:48 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=50473https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=50473Ive been around the LGBT community my entire life my mom is omni so me coming out wasnt a surprise when I was 6 I came home and told my mom "hey momma I like girls and I want to kiss them" she laughed and said it was okay to like girls as a girl I forgot about it till I was 10 came out as a lesbian and then bi and then nonbianry and then fluid then trans then gay then where I am now Bi and Genderf...Tue, 31 Aug 2021 05:03:45 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=49857https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=49857when i was 12 i though at first i was just a tomboyish lesbian at first. but then i was a bisexual non binary. to eventually coming out as a trans man who was omnisexual. while my sister was proud of me. my dad wasn't and was transphobic to me but at least my sister was proud for me when i came out.Sun, 22 Aug 2021 18:46:00 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=46221https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=46221I haven't come out to my family, but I have come out to some of my friends. It's was kinda terrifying with the thought that they wouldn't accept me, but they all did. I dunno how I got that thought, seeing how almost all my friends are very welcoming of that. Though, I have come out to a few other friends since then.Fri, 06 Aug 2021 02:29:58 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=45992https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=45992I was texting with some of my friends on discord late one night during a storm and in the group chat one of my friends says as a joke "I mean really, is anyone *really* straight", he said this into a chat with a lesbian and my bi ass. Tho neither knew I was bi. I decided that if just go and tell both of them. After my lesbian friend said she sure as hell isnt, I responded "nah, im bi" trying to ma...Wed, 04 Aug 2021 01:52:36 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=42622https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=42622thankfully, it was actually really planned out hahah. i was in therapy at the time, and had come out as non straight to my therapist some months before. she told me that ofc she wouldnt tell my parents, and that i had to come out whenever i felt ready (which i really appreciated) sooo, some months go by and i have already everything planned out; i came out on a joint therapy session with my parent...Wed, 30 Jun 2021 17:50:54 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=38937https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=38937I came out to my sister as bi four years ago after a party where I was kinda drunk but I do remember she took it really well and was supportive. And today I came out to my parents over a glass of red wine, or to be more specific, mom asked me if I was gay after we had talked a bit about Pride Month and her reasoning for asking is that she saw that I had applied a "Pride" filter on my profile pictu...Sun, 06 Jun 2021 21:24:51 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=38608https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=38608I remember our middle school had a pride parade in grade 8. For about a year I was struggling with my sexuality I tried to ignore it hell I didn’t even know I was gay, but at that parade we held I finally faced the truth and accepted I was gay.  I told my sister who I trusted the most at that time, I didn’t trust my friends or my other family members yet.       I couldn’t even breathe when I was g...Sun, 06 Jun 2021 01:14:36 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=38595https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=38595I remember telling my mom about a girl I was speaking to through the internet and she gave me a lecture on being safe cuz there's creeps online, and I got emotional and confessed I liked her and she was like 'okay, thats not the point...' (meaning that the point is being careful anyways), I was 12 btw. I knew the girl's mom too cuz we spoke through videocall so I was okay.Sun, 06 Jun 2021 00:29:48 +0000