https://blog.spacehey.comForum Topic created by ebookjapanhttps://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=846095https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=846095Black pill is the concept of changing yourself for the better,. Looks over Everything, because the first thing some one see's is how attractive you are. women nor men care if you have a good personality they care if you look good.Sun, 09 Nov 2025 03:08:16 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=838187https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=838187Yeah man!! just dont let yourself be pulled down by debbie downers, there are 8 billion people upon this earth, you are bound to find one you truly love with all your soul who reciprocates, no? No one ever said that was easy! And even if they dont, you show love to yourself and others, and thats all that really matters Tue, 30 Sep 2025 03:29:41 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=835579https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=835579i actually was a self-identified incel for a good two or so years, i have a lot to say about it if anyone would be willing to dm lolFri, 19 Sep 2025 08:53:20 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=781164https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=781164i sympathize with incels, as a human being. it runs dry when you see how cruel they can be to other human beings, especially girls and women. they’re scared of change. all they have to do to get a girlfriend is get some help, be nice person, deprogram from that ideology, put themselves out there. Wed, 16 Jul 2025 16:54:11 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=778374https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=778374It's a mental battle and the one true enemy you have to overcome is yourself. So much time to reflect in loneliness but so few people actually do. A lot of 'incels' live in echo chambers, and when they take that behavior to the outside world, those beliefs are only reinforced tenfold. Those kinds of spaces just create a little bubble where no one can grow, change, or get better. Subscribing to the...Fri, 11 Jul 2025 21:08:52 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=773457https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=773457People who are in the blackpill are immature, therefore not ready to be in a relationship and hold all that responsibility. Ofcourse this is just an ideal theory surrounding not only blackpillers, but also a lot of other what we call "red flags". In reality, there are all kinds of horrible relationships out there. What I wanna say is, Blackpill something, that keeps all the Incels, gooners, moids,...Thu, 03 Jul 2025 20:45:04 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=759456https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=759456As someone questioning if they're aroace or just a femcel,  I must say that my inceldom is partially my fault. I mean, I just feel like i have tastes too niche and my personality just seems repulsive to the average man. That's okay imo, because most men are disgusting.  Men, I find, are all picky, hypocritical and assholes. That's just the way they are nowadays. I feel like no man is attractive no...Sat, 07 Jun 2025 08:09:57 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=749982https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=749982Absolutely. I genuinely cannot imagine a woman actually wanting to be with me, and I don't blame them for that. I have absolutely nothing to offer in a relationship. And even if I did manage to somehow end up in a relationship or even a chance at one, I'd inevitibly end up fucking it all up somehow. I've come to accept that my mere presence and demeanor is inherently creepy and offputting to every...Mon, 19 May 2025 09:29:43 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=745266https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=745266i think it's some kind of collective delusion that protects them from uncomfortable facts about themselves. they're usually really hateful, horrible people to interact with (try visiting any incel forum, they can barely stand each other) but blame it on things they can't control to absolve themselves of responsibility. they base their ideas on beauty standards on what other men find attractive ins...Wed, 07 May 2025 21:32:29 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=740008https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=740008I think it could be partly true, but honestly I think we have a mental illness crisis going on that's the core issue. This is exacerbated by the fact we live in an age of convenience. People believe they can get just about anything with no effort or with money. Self improvement is self-fulfillment is the gateway to acquiring what they desire. These people just don't wanna put enough work into chan...Fri, 25 Apr 2025 05:38:36 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=715416https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=715416I believe there is someone for everyone. I don't agree with the way they go about complaining abt the dating world, but looks definitely play a solid part in it. I mean, who wants to date someone they think is ugly? thankfully, everyone has different traits they consider attractive. fr theres someone for everyone though. Ive met tonsss of girls who like ugly men, short men, neurodivergent men, bal...Thu, 20 Feb 2025 01:45:05 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=706484https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=706484I'm a guy who's been in blackpill/incel/tfl spaces for years and it's SO frustrating seeing our struggles get dismissed by especially women who have no clue what loneliness actually feels like.  Women are never short of options which is why they can't comprehend the experiences that many men go through. I'm 22 and have absolutely zero romantic experience at all. No woman has ever shown the slighte...Mon, 03 Feb 2025 03:26:48 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=696373https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=696373"Do you think that it is harder for average to above-average men to find women in the current dating climate?" I think so, yeah. It is much harder than before, especially in the west. But I hate blackpillersSat, 11 Jan 2025 23:53:31 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=695857https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=6958573 years later and this sh still holds up, even more than ever. I'm still in school, and this phenomena is outstanding. I'm not ugly by any means, though i'm no model, I am always avoided like the plague. Girls don't speak to me unless i've known them since like middleschool, guys dont either. This can put ppl into the blackpill sphere, which I fell into for a long time, i still think ab it a lot. ...Thu, 09 Jan 2025 20:15:42 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=691772https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=691772its partly mental depression maybe and partly just hate for woman and shit. hard to feel bad when ppl are dicks lolFri, 20 Dec 2024 05:44:48 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=670754https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=670754back when I was a very insecure teen I used to sympathize with the incel community. Nowadays while I mostly agree with the idea that they're mysoginistic, angry low status men who want to enslave women, I do think the blackpill is mostly true and an uncomfortable fact about human sexuality that many people dont like to talk about or outright deny due to political ideology (like feministis and othe...Tue, 20 Aug 2024 05:36:22 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=639289https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=639289i gen think blackpill men are annoying asf, and as someone who unluckily went on a popular incel forum out of curiosity, it's no wonder that women don't want them. i legit saw most of the incels fantasizing about SA, or just being bigoted. but, tbh i think they are just mentally unwell, which kind of plummets them into whatever rabbithole that inceldom is. or those alpha dudebro podcasts, like and...Sun, 31 Mar 2024 00:30:18 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=516887https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=516887The movement in general always came off as one of those "Learned Helplessness" kinds of things. Where they never learned actual coping skills and were instead lead to believe that it was everyone else's fault when they would fail. That along with a strong indesire(Is that a word?) to change in any way due to feeling safe as they are. Seeing them in action is equal parts cringe and genuinely upsett...Thu, 24 Aug 2023 01:24:07 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=514023https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=514023blackpill is just a new covering for nihilism. Fri, 18 Aug 2023 00:31:42 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=494670https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=494670“There is no such thing as a friend zone, it’s called being a little bitch” - filthyfrankMon, 17 Jul 2023 20:39:27 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=492188https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=492188Ramm so goddamn trueFri, 14 Jul 2023 01:29:49 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=383806https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=383806Regarding the second question: no. Regarding the former: "true forced loneliness" isn't real, and "inceldom" must be clearly defined as an ideology, and not a purely sociological descriptor. The vast majority of virgins do not classify themselves as "incels" and nor should they, because in the public consciousness, "incel" refers to adherence to a specific ideology, rooted in pseudoscience, that c...Thu, 16 Feb 2023 18:23:25 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=339472https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=339472Weaklings.Sat, 26 Nov 2022 06:09:08 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=83808https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=83808First i wanna say that I agree with Eros. Secondly, i don't think it's hard for them, no, lol. I think a lot of people just don't have a good attitude or approach to dating.Sun, 14 Nov 2021 00:49:18 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=52490https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=52490as someone who used to subscribe to the thought of " the blackpill" its more mental than anything. a lot of men specifically fall into a rabbithole of hate and its hard to move past it. as far as dating goes, its really a right place-right time for most. however, it seems many put too much force on having a relationship rather than finding themselves and letting a relationship come naturally.Mon, 20 Sep 2021 01:09:03 +0000