<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>&quot;How do I go about finding a new group of friends in the modern age?&quot; | Forum Topic | SpaceHey</title><link>https://blog.spacehey.com</link><description>Forum Topic created by Bee</description><item><title>Reply by &quot;ThatLionLoser&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=249716</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=249716</guid><description>I wish I had some advice :[ Making friends is something I&#039;ve struggled with for a long time. Some relationships I already had around me have really strengthened these past couple of years, but meeting new people is an entirely different beast. Do you have a friend who could invite you to one of their servers or group chats? I ask because recently, my friend invited me to their server, and I&#039;ve met...</description><pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2022 18:32:08 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;o_na0mi&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=246177</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=246177</guid><description>me too :’( the only reason i have friends is bc i got lucky and an extrovert came up to me first -u-</description><pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2022 23:01:08 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;maria&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=244315</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=244315</guid><description>i’ve found that giving people compliments is always a great conversation starter e.g on a bus or when you’re walking past someone, you could always ask for their socials afterwards.</description><pubDate>Sat, 23 Apr 2022 14:56:25 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Mimi!&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=242052</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=242052</guid><description>I wish I knew. I remember how easy it was to make friends in primary school especially kindergarten-2nd grade lol all you had to do was ask to be friends or randomly start playing together. </description><pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 16:51:23 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;GloomyBear420&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=241838</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=241838</guid><description>Consider, at first, what kind of people you want to hang out with and meet. Also make sure you&#039;ve got some interesting stuff to talk about once in a while, don&#039;t make other people carry the entire weight of a conversation with you!  From there, you&#039;ll have to find people who like the same stuff you like or have something in common with you. Look for interesting Discord servers like someone said, p...</description><pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2022 00:37:35 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Doja&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=240493</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=240493</guid><description>I’m sorry this is kind of generic but, slowly do it. Talk to some people in your class and just join them, if they dont like you then fk them they dont deserve you.  Or just abruptly leave. It’s half term break rn so just air them and go to the library or sum, you’ll be surprised how many amazing people you’ll meet there</description><pubDate>Wed, 13 Apr 2022 21:07:43 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;sadee!!&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=236845</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=236845</guid><description>i struggle with the same, however, if you want to be friends i am absolutely welcome to that idea !!!1</description><pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2022 19:54:00 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;aidan&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=227498</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=227498</guid><description>im still trying to figure that out</description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2022 00:12:18 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;weirdhouseplant&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=225914</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=225914</guid><description>I find that just talking to as many people as you can until you click works. Usually cool people know other cool people so gaining one friend can lead to more</description><pubDate>Sat, 26 Mar 2022 10:31:04 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Sivan Alyra Rose🍒&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=224498</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=224498</guid><description>I enjoy socializing and make friends &amp; acquaintances (learn the difference) rather easily. Here&#039;s some advice:  Take initiative.  Be calm, be patient. Introduce with genuine tone, not forced kindness. Not everyone wants to chat, if so, move on with grace.  Club sports, specialty interest classes, and good ol&#039; community events (concerts, galleries, festivals, markets) are a great way to get out IRL...</description><pubDate>Fri, 25 Mar 2022 01:18:08 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;applesauce&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=224397</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=224397</guid><description>ive had alot of luck with joining irl meetup groups (though this largely depends on your location, i live in southern california so its fairly easy to find them here) like im not even much of a furry but there is a furmeet once a month near me that I go to and made some of my best friends there. since everyone goes to make friends its alot easier to talk to others, and if you know even a little bi...</description><pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2022 23:21:36 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;lilynut&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=223491</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=223491</guid><description>damn idk i got social anxiety</description><pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2022 03:17:41 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Nazaan&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=221348</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=221348</guid><description>Mutual interests grow some pretty big bonds</description><pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2022 09:16:45 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;arachnidsGrip&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=203916</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=203916</guid><description>I had to move schools a year ago. And it was very difficult going from having classmates I shared a decade of history with to not having any friends at all. But honestly the best thing that worked for me was being patient and talking to people I sat near. It doesnt always work. Some people are just a little antisocial (and thats fine! Maybe they&#039;re nervous, too). But people are friendlier and more...</description><pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2022 03:20:52 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;martha &lt;3&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=201333</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=201333</guid><description>be talkative, compliment people, and just try to be a nice person - also, ill be your friend , lmk if you need anything :)</description><pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 17:33:50 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Sammy&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=198611</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=198611</guid><description>What I do is I find people who sit by themselves and rarely talk and just do small jesters to them or like throw them a piece of paper at them saying you want to be friends. (●&#039;◡&#039;●) </description><pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 01:26:40 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;2kkink&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=197507</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=197507</guid><description>to be honest these days it gets harder to make friends; maybe its jut me because my anxiety prevents me from wanting to talk to a new crowd who i know have the same interest as me.  I dunno, I feel like we just don&#039;t wanna put ourselves in uncomfortable situations.  I feel like I took this reply a bit seep omg T-T</description><pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 21:57:36 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Lovely&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=196879</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=196879</guid><description>Go to people that in ur class or sum and say hey I’m pretty shy but wanna be friends like they will think ur balsy for pulling that and there u got friends</description><pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 19:32:14 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot; zaL&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=196478</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=196478</guid><description>It&#039;s all about how you present yourself and body language. Ask about their day, complement their shirt, ask where they got it and so on. Be engaged to the conversation and what they&#039;re saying. When you feel like its about to get awkward do a quick &quot;it was nice to meet you, hope to see you around&quot; don&#039;t drag it. Might make them uninterested.</description><pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 17:30:42 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;Weegee&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=196144</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=196144</guid><description>Ugh same (´；ω；｀)</description><pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 15:46:41 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖗𝖑𝖎𝖊&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=195886</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=195886</guid><description>we can b friends if u want! i understand where ur at, shit isn’t fun at all :( hmu if u need anything!!!</description><pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 13:50:37 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;plasmaDunk&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=193664</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=193664</guid><description>If ya see a group doing something you enjoy, stare at em a bit or find a mutual friend and just sorta wing it from there. (Don&#039;t actually stare at them, try to ask if you can join in instead)</description><pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2022 07:35:01 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;JillTheSomething&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=193240</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=193240</guid><description>you kinda just have to talk to random people. Once you get one friend that way though you can just hang out w/ their friends. Its how Ive done it. </description><pubDate>Sat, 12 Mar 2022 01:06:33 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;daisy&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=192690</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=192690</guid><description>honestly I think that just talking to random people(for ex. in class, at work, whatever) is probably the only way since I mean someone has to step up and take the initiative right ????????</description><pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2022 05:51:11 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Reply by &quot;☆herman☆&quot;</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=191031</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=191031</guid><description>i do not know. but i struggle with the same shizz</description><pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2022 09:39:54 +0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>