"Relationship advice for anyone" | Forum Topic | SpaceHey

Reply by "CardcaptorSakura29"

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 20:13:25 +0000

Hi !!!! i feel like im a bit younger than most ppl here but maybe that will help with advice lol. i dont really get crushes on people (or sometimes ill say ive got a new crush every week js bc its fun and i want to gossip) but there was this one guy i liked since third grade and we were super good friends during the pandemic (like calling everyday and stuff) and then we got like, super physical i...

Reply by "Broshua"

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 15:44:47 +0000

buy flowers, i did today and it was fun

Reply by "lynni_ez"

Wed, 05 Feb 2025 22:40:36 +0000

hi strangers!! i'm a tiny bit confused as to if this is for relationship advice but i need a little help rn. i'm a freshman and i just started dating this sophomore at my school, and it has been ROUGH. hes a really great guy, but hes horrible at texting and i've heard a lot of stuff about him that isn't great. for more context, i have one class with this guy. i went on dates with him b4 we became ...

Reply by "suya!!"

Sun, 02 Feb 2025 19:31:14 +0000

this really helped, im not in a good spot with my gf right now. it just seems like i keep messing up and idk how to stop. my self esteem dropped so low and i was considering some bad things last night but thankfully i decided to sleep and i found this piece of advice the next morning. its tough when youre struggling with your OWN life and trying to keep your relationship together so thank you stra...

Reply by "cmlexslv"

Sat, 14 Dec 2024 18:56:14 +0000

Hii, Im only 15 and read this make me feel sooooo much better about my future, Im always anxious about it and know your pov about love and relatonship rassure me!! Thanks you so much !!!!!!

Reply by "_0defnot7me"

Wed, 13 Nov 2024 15:47:35 +0000

Hello there so i just wanna say my first relationship. So im just gonna explain this with no big details but were in the same class and i realized that he had a crush on me. At the time we were talking and were in a kind of situationship i can say we were more than friends. One night he was home alone and it was 3 in the morning he convinced me to snick out and go to his place. i mean it was a coo...

Reply by "✧ ˚ · . n"

Sat, 02 Nov 2024 01:02:11 +0000

hi! im currently experiencing a situationship, sometimes i feel like he loves me and sometimes i feel like shit whenever i talk to him :,) i really love him, i get that hes very busy at times especially since hes moving (again...) and got a job too, but he never even texts me. today i asked if he could talk to me more often but he got really mad at me and started saying things like we arent a cou...

Reply by "atute ^^"

Fri, 14 Jun 2024 04:38:07 +0000

Me gusta un chico de mi clase, pero es hetero y parece que le gusta otra chica :ca año atrás éramos amigos y yo no sentía nada por él en ese momento pero todo cambió este año, nos separamos sin ningún argumento. o cualquier cosa por su estilo simplemente dejamos de hablar, y ahora no puedo evitar mirarlo todo el tiempo, creo que me gusta mucho, aunque me confunde porque nuestras miradas se encuent...

Reply by "Crystal Davidson"

Tue, 07 May 2024 01:47:12 +0000

soz theres this guy i like and hes my best friend >//// < but he doesnt seem to reciprocate those feelings : < i always see him at the gas station talking to this 1 girl whos in the other math class.. hes always smiling around her and i waz wondering what i should do to win his heart >_ < hes a paranormal investigator and in my math class btw >_0

Reply by "rowayne <3"

Sun, 14 Apr 2024 11:15:31 +0000

I'm in a bit of a conundrum and I may need some advice. So to explain it simply I went out with a girl who liked me but I didn't like her back and I just said I liked her so that she wouldn't be sad. I grew to realise that this wasn't the best option and the end of New year's Day I broke up with her but I felt like that wasn't the best option because later on in life well around six months or thre...

Reply by "MALIZARAWRRXD"

Fri, 23 Feb 2024 16:50:42 +0000

Heyy, I have a crush on this guy and i don't know if I actually LIKE HIM or i just like the idea of being in a relantionship, what should I do??:((

Reply by "99iris"

Fri, 23 Feb 2024 06:07:12 +0000

I agree, always love yourself first even if it's hard. Love yourself before you get into a Relationship or you'll be stuck with constant insecurity and seeking reassurance if you're still wanted. Abandonment issues I understand, but constantly comparing yourself to other people may leave a negative scar if you find yourself unattractive. More importantly, your goals come first and it's not selfis...

Reply by "AlexLemme"

Wed, 18 Oct 2023 09:27:45 +0000

Universal relationship advice : Communicate openly, respect each other, spend quality time, resolve conflicts calmly, trust and be honest, maintain individuality, show appreciation, support each other's goals, be patient and forgiving, keep things exciting, and grow together. tbh the most important thing that everyone should do in relationship is being opened in communication. if not it gonna make...

Reply by "Kylone"

Mon, 19 Jun 2023 00:26:45 +0000

ngl im mixed between my own feelings too, i got this one girl i have been talking to her for 3 months my biggest mistake was acting too friendly around her as in acting more like a friend rather then someone who is potentially interested in her. Since realizing this mistake i have been pushing forward the idea of me being interested but not being too pushy since school ended we have been talking l...

Reply by "shanlei_"

Sat, 27 May 2023 07:52:08 +0000

Communication

Reply by "sweet8teen"

Sat, 28 Jan 2023 06:35:52 +0000

this is reassuring to read

Reply by "mary!!!"

Wed, 08 Dec 2021 23:13:02 +0000

seeking advice from people who understand debilitating social anxiety :/ basically i like this guy that i met a few months ago- my best friend and i joined his friend group through another mutual friend. weve been pretty good friends this whole time and this guy is a musician so my best friend and i go to all his concerts. the problem is that (1) my best friend has a crush on him too and we both d...

Reply by "quinny <3"

Sun, 10 Oct 2021 04:39:51 +0000

hi : ) my partner and i were together for over a year. he did a lot of stuff that was really fucked up (ex; having me do sexual things i said no to, saying his bipolar disorder made him want to manipulate me, not being able to control his temper and yelling at me/my friends , and quite a lot more lol.) this shit has stuck with me for so long. i cannot let it go, and yet i still love him? and i hat...

Reply by "𝐿𝒾𝓋𝒾𝑒❁"

Tue, 23 Mar 2021 05:44:17 +0000

Don't waste ANY time buiding with someone who doesn't treat you how YOU feel like you should be treated or doesnt do the things you would want your partner to do for you and the relationship. It is so not likely you could change a person in anyway. I promise there is someone out there who will be EVERYTHING that you're looking for without having to push but you'll never find them if youre stuck in...

Reply by "Raymond"

Tue, 02 Mar 2021 00:16:53 +0000

Always love yourself first before any other person..

Reply by "Kato"

Thu, 21 Jan 2021 06:22:55 +0000

100%, umbrykane. I would hazard to say that you get what you put into it, but also to recognize when you're the only one doing any heavy lifting. If the other person isn't willing to put in the same amount of work you are, then that's a red flag. Ultimately, it comes back to what my granddad said when I was a kid -- "Love is like a fart, kid. If you gotta force it, it's probably shit." And DevCam,...

Reply by "DevCam"

Wed, 13 Jan 2021 03:31:48 +0000

Thank you for the responses! I think both of y’all may be right. Even now as she’s going through hard times, there’s nothing I can do for her on my end besides just listen. She said before that she wishes I was there to hold her and tell her things will be fine. Long distance is truly difficult especially with me being in the military. The good thing is that I’m leaving the military soon and I’m t...

Reply by "umbrykane"

Tue, 12 Jan 2021 04:29:24 +0000

As Vascgirl said, it's possibly the long distance, I've been in a few LD relationships and they are really hard to keep strong; even if you've met them IRL, or knew them IRL before going long distance it's still tough. The longing to have someone there physically to have and hold takes a toll emotionally. From personal experience, even in a LD relationship, if you found someone actually there tha...

Reply by "Vascgirl"

Mon, 11 Jan 2021 00:52:19 +0000

Hi Devcam, She may have tired of long distance. If she changes behavior that is a clue. Its easier to let someone online go as opposed to a real interaction. You sound like a nice guy and I am sure you will find a girl.

Reply by "DevCam"

Sun, 10 Jan 2021 02:48:20 +0000

Hello, it’s a pleasure to meet you and yeah, it seems like you’ve had a loooot more experience in different relationships than I do and I’m 25. 😅 I’m happy that things are going well for you and your new born! You very much deserve happiness with someone in your life. I guess for me, there is someone that I have grown very fond of recently. Keeping it short, she and I went to high school together...