https://blog.spacehey.comForum Topic created by King_bali247https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=869714https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=869714Lesbianism should be cute and just idk FEMENINE but somehow it's becoming common to be masculine... almost with gender roles... rough and hyper sexual.... SO EVERY TIME IS HARDER AND HARDER TO FIND "THE PARTNER"Thu, 12 Mar 2026 23:55:10 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=861504https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=861504They just see ppl they're attracted to as people to fuck and nothing else, no emotions Wed, 28 Jan 2026 11:48:03 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=832391https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=832391i get rejected almost everytime :\Mon, 01 Sep 2025 16:00:23 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=830231https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=830231Well, most of the people I know they just wanted to be in the moment, and not for all my live with me or with their relationships. I have thinked about that a lot, I right know I think is not that bad, it hurts a lot and im not that kind of people that just kiss and then leave but somehow they show us to apprecite the today and not the tomorrow. I found quite difficult to really be the gf of the p...Fri, 22 Aug 2025 22:18:29 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=717909https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=717909The internet has changed the way we view people sadly. I also seek monogamy when I'm in the dating pool. Its a tough current to navigate, but we are out here. Area is a big factor in my experience, I live near a big city and so a lot of people around here jump into what's popular and that happens to be open relationships and non-monogamy relationships. I removed dating apps and have paused trying ...Mon, 24 Feb 2025 19:06:51 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=712108https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=712108I feel like it’s mostly because queerness is still not fully accepted by society, so a lot of queer people are either too afraid to start dating anyone of the same gender or haven’t fully accepted that they aren’t straight.  To answer your second question, I have personally not met that many non-monogamous people even in the LGBTQ+ community but I have seen a lot of xenophobia when it comes to pol...Thu, 13 Feb 2025 07:41:27 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=700603https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=700603I'm also a gay person and I can't find my love, I tried in the past to find someone online but they were just a bunch of older people, rn I really stryggle finding my a gay dude like me, I'm oiriginaly a boy, but now I identify as a goth girl, please help me find someone.... :)Fri, 24 Jan 2025 19:28:26 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=251230https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=251230Let's get to the root of the problem of how a lot of classic lgbtq culture in the United States is very steeped shame, trauma, violence, and addiction. Lgbtq people have a lot of generational healing to do to be able to have healthy sustainable relationships. In USA history, we're not even a full 100 years away from a time where it was acceptable to openly mistreat lgbtq people. A lot of us have g...Thu, 12 May 2022 05:07:02 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=136645https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=136645Yes once that trust is gone is hard to get that back and you or whoever broke that trust will have to put in that work to gain that back but it will never truly be like it once was. Like I look at my life and where im at and it’s discouraging that I haven’t found my life partner, yes Im content with being with myself but there’s nothing like having someone to share things with create memories with...Thu, 09 Dec 2021 01:11:18 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=136642https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=136642All love all of your responses and I agree in this day and age everything is about unrealistic beauty standards, everything is sexualized, as well as it’s so accessible to get ure nut and go without putting in the work to get to know someone for who they are as a person.Thu, 09 Dec 2021 01:08:23 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=93652https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=93652Yes and yes a lot of people are not ready for this life Mon, 15 Nov 2021 23:59:40 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=93646https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=93646Ive pretty much lost hope. I start thinking about wanting to be with somebody, but then i remember allthe shit about it that i hate and i remember why i like being single. It's still nice to think about, sleeping next to someone and feeling like somebody really cares about you.  My last relationship was great, we had our differences, but after the first argument we really had,  we made up. The nex...Mon, 15 Nov 2021 23:56:21 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=83330https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=83330It is harder now to kind romance and people wanting relationships. Even though everything is "hook-up" culture now, if you remain patient, one day the right one will come along.Sat, 13 Nov 2021 23:14:29 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=76386https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=76386It's true, some people are simply assholes who don't want to be direct. That is why it's better in a way to say up front what you're looking for, so you don't have expectations over nothing, etc. It's better to not have expectations. That's pretty much it.Sat, 13 Nov 2021 00:29:27 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=75855https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=75855I agree that everyone not like but when you run into person after person who says one thing or does another and waste ppl time it’s an issue. I’m all about being upfront state ure true intentions so i can make an informed decision for myself. It just makes things very discouraging when ppl can’t be honest or play with time because the dating process is very taxing.Fri, 12 Nov 2021 23:27:33 +0000https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=69992https://forum.spacehey.com/reply?id=69992I get ya. It is quite difficult. Most people are looking to **enjoy** in the moment and then leave, just like that. But hey, just because the majority is like that, it doesn't mean that there won't be people that are looking for those deep connections. It is a matter of looking, or waiting! Patience is a virtue, after all. Sounds cliché and shit, but it's true.Fri, 12 Nov 2021 04:51:18 +0000