<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Top Topics in the &quot;Butches &#039;n Femmes&quot; Group Forum | SpaceHey</title><link>https://groups.spacehey.com/forum?id=36135</link><description>Forum Topics in the &quot;Butches &#039;n Femmes&quot; Group Forum on SpaceHey, created by users.</description><item><title>21 year old butch loser seeks community for her own sanity</title><link>https://forum.spacehey.com/topic?id=230400</link><guid>https://forum.spacehey.com/topic?id=230400</guid><description>Heyyy I’m El and I’m a 21 year old from the UK. I have been out as a lesbian for many years but recently adopted the label “butch”. Felt like a very scary thing at the time, I felt like I didn’t really fit the stereotypical idea of a butch, so I didn’t think I deserved the label. Since allowing myself to, I have felt more connected to my identity than ever before.  The community I’ve found amongst...</description><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2025 01:17:29 +0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>